{"title":"Shielded Separation System","description":null,"products":[{"product_id":"shielded-separation-documentation-system","title":"Shielded Separation Documentation System","description":"\u003cp dir=\"ltr\"\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eEverything you need to document your separation, organize your money and get ready for your lawyer, in one private system.\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp dir=\"ltr\"\u003eWhen a relationship ends, the facts pile up fast: the date it ended, money that moved, messages you’ll need later, lawyer letters, court dates. Most people try to keep it all in their head, their phone or a messy folder, and lose what matters when they need it most.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp dir=\"ltr\"\u003eShielded Separation gives you one organized place for all of it. Seven tools work together and share one numbering system, so every record points to its proof and your lawyer can find anything in seconds.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp dir=\"ltr\"\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eWhat’s included\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp dir=\"ltr\"\u003e\u003cstrong\u003e1. Shielded Separation App\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/strong\u003eYour records in your pocket. Log events the moment they happen: under-one-roof entries, patterns, messages and money, with photos and scanned documents attached. The app uses the same reference numbers as your spreadsheets and binder, so everything stays connected. One tap turns your entries into a timeline PDF with numbered exhibits for your lawyer. It’s private by design: your data stays on your phone, behind a PIN or Face ID, with a quick-hide button and a safety screen with support contacts. Updates are free.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp dir=\"ltr\"\u003e\u003cstrong\u003e2. Separation Documentation System (spreadsheet)\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/strong\u003eYour central record: separation date, under one roof log, pattern log, communications, court dates, witnesses and evidence, with a dashboard that updates itself.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp dir=\"ltr\"\u003e\u003cstrong\u003e3. Finance \u0026amp; Property Organizer (spreadsheet)\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/strong\u003eAssets and debts at separation, shared bills and who owes whom, flagged transactions, contributions, and a settlement document checklist.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp dir=\"ltr\"\u003e\u003cstrong\u003e4. Separated Under One Roof Kit (PDF)\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/strong\u003eStep-by-step pages to show you’ve separated while still sharing a home, ending with an affidavit preparation worksheet for your lawyer.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp dir=\"ltr\"\u003e\u003cstrong\u003e5. Court \u0026amp; Legal Toolkit (PDF)\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/strong\u003eChronology, exhibit index, orders tracker, hearing and mediation preparation, and a legal costs log.\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp dir=\"ltr\"\u003e\u003cstrong\u003e6. Message Templates (PDF)                                                                                                                              \u003c\/strong\u003e58 calm, ready-to-send messages across 8 situations, from house rules and bills to lawyers, banks and adult children. Built on the BIFF® method.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp dir=\"ltr\"\u003e\u003cstrong\u003e7. Separation Binder (PDF)\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/strong\u003eEvery log on paper, with the same reference numbers, for when a device isn’t safe or paper is simply easier.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp dir=\"ltr\"\u003e\u003cstrong\u003e8. Separating Safely and Staying Organised (guide)\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/strong\u003eYour first 30 days, how to keep records that hold up, money, patterns, communication, tech safety, and looking after yourself.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp dir=\"ltr\"\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eWhy it works\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cul dir=\"ltr\"\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eOne numbering system.\u003c\/strong\u003e A withdrawal logged as P-024, its statement saved as D-012. 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